Self-improvement- Where to start

So finally, you are here looking for self-improvement techniques trying to decode your full potential, but thinking where to start from? What do I lack, do I really need self-improvement or may be luck is not on the side. How should I recognize my weak points and start working on it, maybe I know, but doesn’t have the audacity to break my comfort shackles. Surely the longest journey is between planning to implementation.

So, do you really need help? Let me aware you, all solutions within, nothing is outside. Materialistic world is just the extension of the mind. You are the panacea. Identify the non-likeable characteristics and convince your mind that something is wrong in your behavior, work ethics and habits, giving you undesirable results.

Stop being perfect and learn to accept the problem as it is, most of us doesn’t agree that we need to change our self for better living. So coming back to the topic, how to do it, here are some ways to begin your self-improvement process at preliminary level:-

• Join some NLP training in Mumbai. It might sound slightly costly, but completely worth it. It helps in reprogramming your behavior patterns, personality traits and character defining your inclinations and preferences.
• You can try out some books like “You can win” by Shiv Kheda guiding you through the journey of self-improvement.
• Third, but the most effective remedy is self-realization. Sit down, close your eyes and rewind yourself finding what mistakes you made in the past, what are your strengths, which situations to avoid, what makes you angry or people take undue advantage of your nature. Write down every minute detail on a piece of paper.

The solution is to learn from your mistakes, you get what you do. If people are doing wrong to you, abusing you, surely you must have done something wrong to them in the past. May be you are getting the taste of your own medicine. 

• Calm your mind and witness situation as a third person, you can easily identify your committed mistakes and learning from it.
• This is your problem and you are the only one to solve it. Don’t find the best solution, find the solution, which suits you and less harmful.
• At last, but not the least practice the solution, whenever facing the similar situation to avoid the rift and maintaining a peaceful state of mind.